Male covert depression often goes unnoticed because it doesn’t look like what we typically expect depression to look like. Rather than overt sadness, it can present as irritability, emotional withdrawal, overworking, numbness, or a growing sense of disconnection—both internally and within intimate relationships.

Influenced by cultural expectations around masculinity, many men learn early to suppress vulnerability and prioritise competence over emotional expression. Over time, this disconnection can harden into a quiet but pervasive form of depression that impacts not only the individual, but also their partner and family life.

This work explores the hidden nature of male covert depression, how it shows up in relationships, and why understanding it is essential for healing, emotional intimacy, and long-term relational health.

In the quest for a harmonious relationship, the myth of a conflict-free partnership often prevails. The truth is, conflict is not only inevitable - it can be healthy. In this blog, we debunk the notion that a healthy relationship is free of disagreements and conflict. Rather, we explore how healthy conflict fosters growth, understanding and deeper connection. We also shed light on the signs of unhealthy conflict.

Relationships can be both fulfilling and challenging, and it’s not uncommon to experience periods of where things feel difficult. Understanding the different phases of love can provide insight into why your relationship might be going through a tough time.